How to Parent when You’ve Lost a Child?

it changes everything….  your second child ends up being the oldest, even though he’s not the oldest.   everything becomes out of whack.  that first child is a pleaser… WAS a pleaser.  typical first kid.  wanted to do what was right.  more connected to mom.  second child?  typical second child.  more lazy.  more rebellious.  now…

a poem

i write off the cuff about the anger, the hate the words come too quickly negativity won’t abate the why’s, the it’s not fairs they rule, they command seeping into life having the upper hand the anger colors all shading happiness grey exalting celebrating positivity at bay poetry off the cuff writing of woe, pain…